Congratulations Sissy Kaaren. Being locked up for her is certainly a commitment and something that becomes defining in such an essential way. Although it may become a part of everyday it also is a part of every moment. i wish for the same though i do know it has its challenges - and moments (and nights) of discomfort.
Even if you miss surrending and being caged at your initial marriage ceremony, you can have a second ceremony. The ceremony could be years later. You could wear a wedding dress or just stockings/garter/bar/vail and your cage could be install infront of all the guests. Whether early or late, you will be happy you did. i did later - i have never had a regret.
I was caged privately some time after our wedding as we continued to grow and explore our desires! She has shared my status with many of her friends and strangely enough I am OK with that....it makes many of her friends treat me as something other than a male...something harmless,,,almost like a plaything and I just love it!!!!