There were so many years where she wouldn't say what she wanted and there were so many years that I didn't either. I knew she was sensitive there when I would "accidentally" slip my tongue there while I was eating her sweet pussy.
One night I threw caution to the wind and just went straight for it and after her initial surprise she was very enthusiastic! She had worried about making me feel dirty and I had worried about making her feel the same!
Turns out that we both feel dirty and we love it!