The way it should be. My wife says a husband should always be horny, but never a wife.
My wife loves when I use the Hitachi Wand on her and get her to have multiple orgasms. Then she strokes me to a very hard erection and stops so she can enjoy watching me get soft.
As much as we men love to cum, it is apparent that many of us enjoy being denied and not cumming. Much better.
Oh, this would kill me! ~sara